WE all like to think we can trust our partner and most of us wouldn’t think twice about them going away with friends.
One influencer has outed a stranger though, after hearing the shocking comments he made about his fiancé on a train earlier this week.
To make matters even worse, the man also even admitted he’d met ‘the love of his life’ while at a football game with friends – and it wasn’t his fiancé.
Unsurprisingly, the video has gone viral with over 10 million views in less than 24 hours.
Originally uploaded to TikTok by a woman named Ava, the clip shows her horrified reaction as the conversation continues in the background.
Though we can’t hear what has been said, the shocked influencer gives us an insight, writing: “If your name is Amy, your fiancée is on the train back from Doncaster to Newark after the away game [and is] telling his friends how he met the love of his life tonight at the game.”
Continuing, she adds: “His exact words were ‘That’s exactly the kind of girl I want in my life, but unfortunately I have Amy.
“If I didn’t, I’d be back in London with that girl though. Ask him who Heather is.”
In the caption, the content creator urged Amy to leave her fiancée after hearing the conversation on the late train.
She says: “If you are Amy, I really hope you leave his sorry self…you deserve better!”
Needless to say, there have been endless comments with others revealing what they would do in the heart-breaking situation.
One pointedly commented: “As an Aimee who has lost her man to a Heather twice, I hope this girl is found. Love me a girl who is looking out for other girls.”
Another argued: “Don’t be with someone if they’re not who/what you want, I’ll never understand just stringing someone along.”
“Hopefully, Amy dumps him with no explanation because Heather is probably not interested in this guy he’s just someone she met,” suggested a third.
Meanwhile, others decided to try and find the spurned fiancé and even commented their location to boost the visibility of the post.
“You have reach Canada, Quebec. I hope we can find Amy and Heather,” commented a fourth, showing how quickly the shocking news spread.
“I’m from Newark and this has had the town girls’ detective heads engaging,” revealed fifth, with other women also looking on social media to find Amy.
As the video continues to gain momentum online, some are also asking for update.
Horrifyingly, the video is eerily similar to a TikTok made by US woman Tiana Wilshire– who outed a badly behaved groom who cheated during his stag do.
Sharing a clip of him partying in a Las Vegas pool, the content creator claimed that the man had flirted with her and others – but left out the more salacious details.
Let’s hope these women find partners who actually deserve them.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.